DIY Wedding: the beginner’s guide
Today, we will explain to you how can you how to organize your wedding on a budget.
Preparing such a big event from scratch can be challenging. There is so much work to do, and you want the result to be perfect. The process can sometimes be stressful.
In this guide, we will give you step-by-step advice. Let’s look at the DIY wedding best practices!
What is a DIY Wedding?
A DIY Wedding is any celebration that the couple organizes themselves. It can be a wedding at the Church, at the beach or even in your house’s garden.
There is not any wedding planner. Also, as a DIY couple, you will try to avoid hiring most of the suppliers. There are a lot of things you can do for yourself.
For example, you can design your invitations, so there is no need to hire a designer. You can personalize the chairs yourself with techniques like vinyl cutting. And, if you are good at cardboard crafting, you won’t need any help to decorate the tables.
Now that you understand what a DIY wedding is, it is time for us to explain more about how to get started with it.
Wedding on a budget
Decide who will pay. The couple? Your parents? The guests – by giving you money? This point is something you have to take into account before you make any financial decision. If your parents want to pay for the wedding, they might wish to decide on some aspects. If you depend on the guests’ gifts, you won’t have a complete overview of the money you can spend until the end. Be careful with that.
Five services will make the most significant part of your budget: venue, photographer, transport, catering, and DJ. Take this into account to rank what do you want to hire and what do you want to do yourself.
Look at your crafting supplies before deciding. For example: if you have a cutting machine, you can personalize textiles with vinyl. If you have an embroidery machine, you can customize the table clothes. It’s good to make an inventory to assess your possibilities.
Crafting your decorative elements is usually cheaper than buying those items. But it does not always have to be like that. It is useful to make a benchmark comparing purchases before deciding what you will do yourself.
- Mind every small purchase! Unless you are very careful with your navigation habits, advertisers will target you. And you’ll see a lot of ads with stuff that you could buy just in case. Sure, that set of 2000 led lamps can seem cheap. But if it does not have a purpose, it is a waste.
Prioritization is key. Think about the wedding you want to have. What is the most important thing for you? The happy hour? Making the chapel look amazing? To have a band playing live music? The food? Invest in what matters for you.
- Related to the previous point: you already have furniture, cutlery, and lamps. If you have a garden, you’ll have flowers. And so do your family and friends. Take it into account. Buying and making are not the only options.
One year to organize your big day.
In the best-case scenario, you will have one whole year to organize your wedding. At least, this is what experts usually recommend. This way, you can decide according to your desire and budget. Otherwise, adjust to prices and availability.
During this year, you should complete some specific tasks. We have structured them according to their urgency.
First steps – 12 months before the wedding
- Decide (and hire) the venue. It could be a restaurant, a villa, or a garden. Another option is to choose a place that gives you complete freedom about catering and decoration.
- Select a photographer. The best wedding photographers fit their projects on their schedule one year in advance.
- Send the Save the Date card to your guests. You can do it yourself with a template like this one.
Nine months before the wedding
- Start fitting the outfits of the bride and groom. If you do it yourself, you will need approximately this amount of time to get it ready.
- Plan the decoration. Make an inventory of what you have. Decide what you will buy, and what you will make. It is smart to make all the supplies purchases now. Last-minute purchases will make you spend more money than expected.
Six months before the wedding
- Send the invitations. You can do your own by picking a template and adding all the details of your wedding.
- Start the bureaucratic process. The requirements might vary according to the wedding (and the country/ state you live in).
Three months before the wedding
- Hire transport and hotels if you need them.
- Start planning the honeymoon.
- Celebrate the previous parties: engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party. These are also great occasions to use your DIY talent (and save some money).
The week before the wedding
- Set up the decoration at the venue.
- Celebrate a ceremony rehearsal.
How to organize an express DIY wedding
It is also possible to prepare your party within two or three months. As we said, having one year to set it up is the best-case scenario. But you can still organize a fantastic celebration in less time. Here are some tips.
- Adjust the date to the venue. If there is not a lot of time left, popular venues won’t be available on Saturdays. It will be easier to find a spot on a Friday or during the week.
- Accept that some people won’t be able to make it. This situation is what we try to avoid when we recommend sending the Save the Date cards one year early.
- Avoid excessive outfit fittings. They are time-consuming, and you don’t have a lot of time. Remember that stores will always be faster than ateliers.
- About the decoration: keep it simple, especially if you have done it yourself. Try to rank and only start the projects that matter to you.
- A Wedding Suite is a great design resource. There you will find templates for all the graphics you might need.
We hope that you find our tips and advice helpful. Good luck organizing your DIY wedding!